The Right, Duty, and Responsibility of Self Defense
* note: 6/20/2010 This is an in-progress and incomplete document. The thoughts and conclusions may not be fully formed as of this reading.
My first interest in martial arts was to build skill and confidence to be able to defend myself, my family, and my neighborhood from the criminal and lawless elements that seem to thrive.
As I studied the origins of the two styles I was interested in, Kung Fu and Krav Maga, I found that they, and many other styles of martial arts, had their roots in families and communities preparing to defend themselves from criminal gangs, invading armies, and evil dictators. And they weren't just born out of the need, but where there was a tradition of martial arts, there was also found a responsibility and duty to use it to protect and defend the common good and peace.
For instance, it was "during a time of banditry, violence and a weak imperial military - that we first see evidence that Shaolin monks [now famous for their Kung Fu] actually engaged in a unique form of combat training. . . It was also around this time . . . when the monks were called on to support the military in its campaigns against pirates." (Sharif)
Also, as an example, "In the year 961, martial art head master Fu Ju called together various masters from various areas in China for meetings with a special purpose. This was a very warlike period in China's history and people everywhere were in danger from brigands and armies. Fu Ju invited the best martial artists to come and share their knowledge while training at the Shaolin temple." (Canzonien)
Here is another great story of the Hung Gar Kung Fu Master Lam Sai Wing and Li Shi-gui, a low-ranking military commander, coming together to create a community security force:
All came to the common conclusion that robbers should be decisively repulsed. Furthermore, it was necessary to re-arrange various provisions and rules for the settlement of disputes and to make them a law with the aim to stop squabbling and paying off of personal scores. Also, our aim is not to permit the use of fighting arts for oppression of laobaisin (ordinary people) in order not to have a bad reputation among later generations. The young and the vigorous, who are just entering the social life, must take an example of great people and be generous-hearted and virtuous. If somebody with an undeserved honor to hear do not listen to these words, then, let him blame himself. All disasters are caused by one's foolishness! (Yuzhai)
I've already touched on the history of Krav Maga born out of the persecution of the Jewish people. "Since its existence, Israel has had to fight daily to maintain its survival. Surrounded and outnumbered by its enemies, Israelis developed systems of combat that focused on practicality, versatility and mental toughness. Out of necessity, Israeli martial arts valued rapid, instinctive learning methodologies and abandoned the formality of traditional self-defense systems. By adapting these philosophies, Israel has learned to survive through war and terrorism while developing one of the most formidable and well-respected armies in the world." (Kou)
In these cases, we can clearly see the duty and responsibility to use our Kung Fu to protect the defenseless.
Further more, martial arts in general and Kung Fu in particular are truly organic and therefore protect the most vulnerable. By organic I mean not institutionalized. The art and philosophy is passed on from family to family, and it is the family, neighborhood, community that directly benefits.
References:
Canzonien, Salvatore. "The Origin of Shaolin Taizu Changquan: Grand Ancestor of all Shaolin Boxing" Kung Fu Tai Chi magazine, June 2010 page 42
Kou, Henry , with Moni Aizik. "Commando Krav Maga" Inside Kung-Fu Magazine, www.insidekung-fu.com/content/view/61/36/1/0/
Sharif, Sulaiman. "Matial Arts Myths: Shaolin: The Birth of Kung Fu?" Inside Kung Fu magazine, July 2010, insidekung-fu.com
Yuzhai, Zhu. Disciple of Lam Sai Wing. "Short Historical Essay on Master Lam Sai Wing" As related by Zhang Shibiao from Pangyu. hung-gar-kung-fu.netfirms.com/LamSaiWing7.htm visited 9/2/2010
Hung Gar Kung Fu
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Luke and Mick, Trinity Training Center demo at the Rave, Summer 2010
"Kung Fu rewards those who can eat bitter."
Coach Peter Fu, U.S.A. O-Mei Kung Fu Academy, says "Mostly, Shaolin [Kung Fu] taught him how to eat bitter, which is a fundamental requirement to follow the warrior's way." (Ching)
References:
Ching, Gene. "Embroidering Shaolin with Flowers: Modern Wushu versus Shaolin Theater" Kung Fu Tai Chi magazine, June 2010
Dobra Family Kung Fu Style of Martial Arts
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Luke and Mick, Trinity Training Center demo at the Rave, Summer 2010
In my research of martial arts I found a sense of family legacy, which is one of my King's greatest desires. Fathers pass along the faith, impressing God's revelation upon them. Fathers can also model and pass along healthy living, fitness, and fighting style (self defense).
Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children.
Deuteronomy 6:5-7 quoted by Jesus in Matthew 22:36-40
I practice Kung Fu under Sifu Dexter Parker (peoriakungfu.com) and I have studied the history of Krav Maga and believe the principles of self defense and survival to be worthy of passing on to my posterity. (A.1)
The Dobra Family martial arts is a philosophy built on the solid foundation of the Hung Gar (Hung family, Southern Chinese style) Kung Fu as taught by Sifu Dexter Parker (1) and the historical reality of self defense as taught through Krav Maga.
I would define our family martial arts like Bruce Lee defined his, as a "style without style". "Unlike more traditional martial arts, [Bruce Lee's] Jeet Kune Do is not fixed or patterned, and is a philosophy with guiding thoughts." (2)

Rooting Skill
Rooting, the ability to ground oneself, is on of the most important skills that a well-rounded martial artist should possess... and was considered necessary kung fu for warriors, generals and skilled masters. . .
What a great class saturday with Sifu Parker! Our King desires us to be a light to this world, a source of good and the Gospel Truth.
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Sifu Dexter Parker's Trinity Training Center Kung Fu Demo Videos
Sifu Dexter Parker's Trinity Training Center, Peoria IL, demonstration, Saturday July, 3rd at 2pm at the Rave movie theater for the opening weekend of The Last Airbender.
New videos coming soon! At the bottom of the page are some pictures.
Older Demonstration Videos:
Links to Self Defense Videos
Hung Gar Self Defense Lesson 1
A brief promo for a video. August 21, 2007
General Training Progression Principles:
"The magic of a technique is only revealed after one thousand repetitions."
Old Kung Fu Wisdom
1. Beginning: Conditioning
Practice forms to build memory (instinct), timing, speed, power and skill.
2. Intermediate: Stability
Hold forms for extended periods to build strength, endurance and that sinking feeling of "rooting" to train stability.
3. Advanced: Power
References:
Introduction
1. "Virgin Kung Fu" Kung Fu Tai Chi June 2010 page 32
Chapter 2
1. "Dexter Parker's Trinity Training Center Peoria School of Kung Fu" 2010 peoriakungfu.com
2. "Jeet Kune Do" From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, 2010 en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeet_Kune_Do
2. "Krav Maga" From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, 2010 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krav_Maga
Attachments (see files below):
A.1 Family Self Defense document
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